A herd of what?

August 27, 2009

herd of cats

Sometimes I find myself frustrated with either the ability or lack thereof to communicate in a meaningful way to people who don’t want to listen.  Clearly, Jesus had a message that he wanted to communicate with everyone.  A message of life, and hope, and meaning.  And since he was, as some would say, the Master Communicator, I would think we would want to model our approach after his.

Of course, the problem is, I’m not a whole lot like Jesus!  (I know, it’s true :( )  He always seemed to know when a kind word was in order, or when a stern reprimand was more appropriate.  To one person he would offer a blessing, to another a curse, to another a warning, and to others he wouldn’t say anything at all.  And each time, it seemed to be exactly what was needed.

So, Yay, props to Jesus.  He was perfect.  But what about me?  What about the church?  How do we know when to speak, and what to say?

I think everyone feels at some point in time that they have the perfect answer to an immature attitude, an honest question, an angry letter, a biblical (or un-biblical) world view or an inaccurate rumor.  In fact, I hear peoples answers almost every day.  But they’re rarely appropriate.  Most of the time they’re just angry.  And usually there’s someone in another room voicing their exact opposite opinion and they’re just as angry.

The nice thing about my job is that I get to sit and listen to both sides and act sort of like a judge (at least in my own mind :) ); it gives good perspective and makes it easier to assess the spiritual health of the parties involved.  But what I find myself wondering is this:

If Jesus was here right now, would he act like most churches seem to act?  Would he try and keep everyone happy, try and give people their own space to create their own bubble, try and separate the angry people so that some semblance of peace was in the air (but not in the hearts)?  Would he go out of his way to appease people who had no idea of what the Kingdom of God should look like so they didn’t bring it to the school yard against their opponents?  Would he put peace and pacifism above truth and forward progress?

OR, would he find all these people with different opinions, force feed them Red Bull, lock them in a room, turn Demon Hunter up to 11 and let them work it out?

Although option two sounds like more fun at times, it seems that we’ve had our share of bloodshed because of our misguided belief systems over the years.  What would suck would be if one side in the locked room sneaked in a gun.  Now it’s gone from Christian love to a Crusade.

But the first option doesn’t seem to be working too well either.  In a generation that demands authenticity in Creator-Worship, we can’t stand the way the church seems to handle it’s interpersonal issues.   I constantly hear people asking “why can’t we just tell them (whoever they are) how it is?”  We want to be a part of a community that’s real, not fake, that is open and upfront about truth, not quiet and semi-assertive.

So, what would you say if you could?  If you weren’t worried about being excommunicated or kicked off your committee, what would you preach from the chancel/platform/altar/stage area?

And what would Jesus say?

JF

The altar???

The altar??? I'm looking for the horns :)

So, I was going through the comments from the “who stole my church” discussion sheets and a statement gave me pause.  It was listed under the “things I don’t like about my church” heading.  It caught my eye because I remember seeing some comments on this blog (and others) about the altar and I wondered if this comment was written by one of the authors of those aforementioned replies.

The statement read:  I wish the altar looked like the altar!

So, the obvious question ran through my head… what does an altar look like???  I mean, to answer the question, we would need to know what it was that the person that made the comment meant by 1. the altar, and 2. what THEY thought it should look like.

On point #1, the reason I ask is because there was a comment located elsewhere on the sheet that spoke about the ‘altar-area’.  I wondered aloud:  What is the altar/altar-area?  How big is that ‘area’ and what does it include?  Does it include the space above and below the altar, or is it only the space adjacent to the altar?  Does it include the platform the altar is on as well, or is it only the platform before you get to the piano, or organ, or drums?

On point #2, who determines what the altar should look like?  The only reason I ask is because I did a google image search on the word altar, and I got a whole bunch of results that didn’t look anything like the ‘altar’ that I’m familiar with…

Now, I’m a bit tongue-in-cheek when I say I have “no idea” what people mean when they use the word ‘altar’ because obviously I assume they mean (in our church) the big white stone table in the center of the stage.  But the questions I have are more of a philosophical nature.  This white stone table that we have doesn’t look anything like the ‘altar’ that God described for the Israelites to build, except that it’s, well… heavy.  It’s not square, it doesn’t have horns, it’s not covered in bronze, there isn’t enough room to put an ox on it and light it on fire, and there isn’t a place to collect ashes…and I don’t think we could carry it.  In fact, rumor has it we’ve had over 6 strong guys try and lift it with not even a budge!  (If you want to, you can find a description of the way the alter was to be constructed in Exodus 27:1-8)

So, sometime, somewhere, someone found it acceptable to interpret the idea of the altar and what it represents and create a large, heavy, rectangular, white, flat surface, and decorate it with candles.

The funny thing is, I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THIS!!!  Why not?  I don’t think we should only use the biblicaly prescribed altar in our church, just like I don’t think our priests and pastors should be wearing the super cool/expensive clothing that God commanded the Israelite priests to wear.  Nor do I think we need to keep our Saturdays free from any work or refrain from eating pig that wasn’t blessed by a priest.

What I DO have issue with is when someone creates an altar in a specific way and calls it good,  holy, proper, and reverent and then tells someone else that the altar someone else creates IS NOT good or holy or proper or reverent.  The question that begs to be asked is:  By WHO”S STANDARD are you judging? Is it by God’s standard?  Why or why not?  And if it’s not by God’s standard, what gives one person’s interpretation or representation a higher or more correct status than another persons??

Just a question I like to think about :)

So to the original statement, my question back would be… What does an altar look like to you?

JF

New Service Times?

June 6, 2009

What time is it?  4:30.  It's not late, naw, it's just early, early

What time is it? 4:30. It's not late, naw, it's just early, early

So, we’ve embarked on an experiment as a church.  We’re going to try and go to two services for a little while and see how it goes.
Sounds like fun to me!  But how does it make YOU feel?  Are you looking forward to it?  Are you looking forward to it ending?  Is it not going to bother you either way because you’re planning on going no matter what time it is?

Well, I hope you weigh in regardless of how you feel.  If we don’t know (we the church, not we as in ME) how people feel, it will be harder to gauge how effective the move was in moving us towards our mission (our as in the church’s mission, not MINE in particular :) )

Now, I’m sure we could all get into a good discussion about what our mission (individually and collectively) actually is, and I’m sure that would be a lot of fun, but let me ask  you…  Have you participated in the “Who stole my church” study yet?  We’ve only had 1 week, but it seemed to be a good one.  If you missed it, you should definitely show up for the next one.  They start with a dinner at 5:00 on Wednesday in the church basement.

I would be interested to know if some of our bloggers who wrote in on my first post have read the book or have attended the group, and what they thought about it so far…

Cheers!

JF

Busy?

May 19, 2009

 

Anyone for some Halo 3?

Anyone for some Halo 3?

 

 

 

Ok, so I’ve been busy.  Really busy.  I guess you could say I have a lot on my plate…  Well, that’s because I do :)  

Your first question might be, “well John, if you are busy and you have a lot to do, why are you writing this blog?”  Well, that’s a great question.  And here are two answers.

1.  I am writing this blog because I think that the church should be in the business of people.  People are very important.  People make up the church, people support the church, people are the vehicle that God will use to spread His story.

Have you ever found yourself working on something so hard or so intensive that you didn’t notice what was going on around you?  I’ve heard people say that they were so busy talking that they didn’t notice a red light or a stop sign!  I’ve heard people say they worked so much that they forgot what it was like to hang out with family.  Or they forgot what it was like to get a good nights sleep.  Or they totally missed their kid growing up because they weren’t paying attention to the important, they were paying attention to the immediate.

I don’t want to be one of those people.  So, I figured that I would take a few moments out of my day to write a blog to remind myself that while video mixers and guitar strings are important, they aren’t as important as people.

2.  I am writing this blog because I’m stuck.  I’m working on about a hundred different things, all of which are very imediate, and are very annoying because I can’t just get them done.  I think I need an intern that would be willing to take care of all the little stuff I have going on so I can focus on the major stuff.

But instead of an intern, why not a volunteer?  That’s a great idea.  Why not ask someone who loves doing the kinds of things you need done to take the bull by the horns and get it done?    Well, now, I don’t know why I didn’t think of that before… but that’s a great idea!!!

 

Well, actually, I do know why I didn’t think of that before.  There’s 2 reasons…

1.  I think better when I’m talking out a situation.  If I just sit and ponder an idea for too long, my brain does this sort of shut-down thing where it slows to the speed of jelly on a skateboard and turns my productivity into productnotivity (awesome word, yes, you can use it).

2.  Sometimes, us perfectionists like to do things ourselves.  We think know that if we do it, it will get done right, get done quickly, and will be just the way we want it.  But there’s a slight problem with the perfectionist.  Here’s an example:  If you gave a perfectionist the job of picking up his mother in Dayton at 1:15 and his father in Columbus at 1:30, he wouldn’t think “hey, I can’t do that, it’s not physically possible”, rather, he would just wander back and forth in either direction until, eventually, his head exploded.

 

So, to summarize: busy, need help, boom :)

 

 

Have a great day!
JF

 

Who Stole My Church by Gordon MacDonald

Who Stole My Church by Gordon MacDonald

So, here’s a short little post to say just a few words… YOU NEED TO READ THIS BOOK!!

 

First recommended to me by my brother (not real brother) Jim Phillips, I was intrigued by it’s title.  Has the church been stolen?  Then I read the tag line (what to do when your church tries to enter the 21st century).  Oh boy, I know about that :)  Did you know there’s this thing called e-mail?  Did you know that our church still makes cassette tapes of the sermon?  Did you know that they don’t sell tapes at walmart anymore?

 

Let’s just say, I was a bit scared of the book…I half expected it to say something like “fight it with all your might because technology is evil” OR “more people die from technology than technology saves” or something ridiculous like that.  Well, the good news is that it’s not that type of book.  The BETTER news is that it’s not about technology at all.  It’s about people having real conversations (um, but it’s fiction) about what it means to be a church.

 

I don’t want to spoil things, but lets just say it’s become a mandatory read for St. Paul’s staff.  And Jim might just hunt you down and make you read it in front of him!  (just kidding Jim!)

 

I would love to hear from people that have read it!!!  Favorite parts, parts you agree with?  Don’t agree with?  Characters you see yourself as?  Funny stories you can relate to cause they happened to you??

JF

042909-142Hey Awesome People, whoever you are…

Welcome to my blog :)  Just a few pieces of information to start.

1.  This is not my first blog.

2.  This IS my first wordpress blog.

3.  This blog is an experiment on the ability and desire for people to dialogue about the CHURCH and it’s roll in the world.  Micronominaly on St. Paul’s Church, Celina OH, and Macronominaly on the universal church (aka, the bride of Christ). 

4.  Yes, I made up the word micronominaly, but it sounds super smart, doesn’t it?

5.  To my chagrin, it does not appear that the text editor I am using to compose this first entry has any sort of spell checking.  That is very dangerous because I am a horrible speller.  Note to self, compose in Microsoft word :)

6.  Along with the topics of the micro/macro church, I am also interested in the roll that art and technology plays/will play in the church.  I welcome comments/observations/opinions about anything cool like that…

7.  Finally, I am extraordinarily busy (learning how to spell) so this blog will be more of a conversation than constant rambling.  It will be an interaction with people, not a podium to belt my annoyances to the emptiness of cyberspace.  So if people don’t respond, I probably won’t either.

8.  I reserve the right to edit posts with proper spelling whenever I want to :)

 

 

I hope this blog finds itself speaking truth and searching for it at the same time…

JF

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